With the current selfish world,Rama’s deeds would seem foolish to a modern techie,but it is not.Knowledge and values are eternal.Following are a few misconceptions that people have about Rama because of which they don’t consider him to be an ideal idol.
The biggest allegation that we ignorant modern people do about Rama is for having killed King Vaali from behind.Partial knowledge is always dangerous.Perhaps, many of us do not know that Rama called on Vaali and shot him.It was not from behind as the serials show.And moreover,when Vaali was granted the boon that nobody can kill him standing in front of him,his death was destined by a god because he could not be an “Amara”.Infact,Vaali prays Rama’s name realizing him to be Vishnu’s incarnation.Such were the ethics which we cant even think of in present situation.You find most people always attacking you from behind,being your closest from the front!!!!!!! So be aware, and be sincere to whatever you do because as you sow ,so you reap.
People criticize Rama for having made Seetha undergo “Agnipareeksha”.Infact,that is why you never find Rama and Seetha on a wedding invitation. Its not being cruel but being a good ruler(don’t say like the politicians we have today!!!!!!!!) Its actually his greatness that he resorted to such an extreme step just to preserve his morality and to justify himself.Having refrained from it would make him a good husband, but not a good ruler.And it is only those values of selfless Rama that makes him a part our Pooja room.One should always think about interest of a larger group of people than being selfish.If all the people in this world followed this,there would really be no miseries.
We could perhaps go on and on describing Ramayana,indicating its values and their eternity,but as I said,Ramayana should come out of paper into the minds of people.People used to consider “Arun Govil”,the Rama of Ramanand’s Ramayan as a god.That is the caliber of Rama’s character. Believe me,reading Ramayana is much much interesting than any entertainment channel or politics!!So,the rest of the Ramayana is left for you all as an exercise!!!!!!
Coming to Mahabharatha,A Microsoft word document would fall short to summarize it at least.The “bhagavadgita” ,on whose name people swear in court is a part of Mahabharatha.It is the ultimate teacher of mankind.The verses of Mahabharatha hold their eternity because there is always good and bad,may that be dwaparayuga or kaliyuga,but the truth always wins.Lord Krishna,the “Saarthi” is indeed a “Saarthi”. Its a pity that the first thought that many people get in mind about Krishna is that he had 16000 wives and was always surrounded by Gopikas!!!!True but the marriages and relationships then are no where in phase with today’s relationships where a divorce is a free package with marriage!!!!People marry money than the bride.Nowhere in Mahabharatha,do we encounter any of Krishna’s wives complaining about him.
Sudhama,Krishna’s poor friend came to seek his help with no hopes and Krishna was there with him throughout his life.Just compare that with today’s friends.People get new friends and the old friends get vanished.We perhaps would take a lifetime to think “who is my best friend”. Friendship, or any other relationship for that matter is divine and derive examples from great mythological ages.If we follow even an atom of it,world would be such a beautiful place.Always value your relationships because God always does good to good people,”der he par Andher nahi!!!” And,regarding the biggest misconception that Krishna had lied in the Kurukshethra,this would probably be an enlightenment because people know only half the truth and believe that ignorance is bliss!!! The Sanskrit epic of mahabharatha says, Krishna delivered the sentence “Ashwaththaama hata: kunjara:” ,the elephant named Ashwaththaama is killed and the shankha was blown as the utterance of the word “kunjaraha “started which made the above statement sound “Ashwaththaama hataha” meaning Ashwaththaama is dead!!!!!What an intentional miscommunication!!!!So people accusing Krishna of lying, hold on.
Considering both the epics,we need to extract the values and ethics that makes us a person who carries weight.There is a lot to learn from everybody. Infact, Ravana is the biggest Maathrubhakta and Shivabhaktha ever.So,this is a sincere request to everybody,especially those who challenged existence of Rama and Rama sethu recently,stop questioning integrity of god and follow atleast basic human values!!!Afterall,what humanity is it to be the critique of ubiquitous God who has given us this “manava janma”.Inspite of all this,God always helps man saying,
“Paritraanaaya Saadhoonam vinaashaaya cha dushkrutaam
Dharma sansthaapanaarthaaya sambhavaami yuge yuge”
“Sarve janaaha sukhino bhavantu”
“hare krishna hare krishna krishna krishna hare hare
Hare rama hare rama rama rama hare hare”

